In my first congregation I realized very early on that if I was going to allow myself to get boxed up inside the four walls of the building and spend my time ony with church members I would soon lose every ounce of passion I once felt for the gospel. Early in my sense of call, John 20.21 had spoken powerfully to me, drawing me into the missional life. Being a chaplain to church folk, while important, was not the only thing I was called to do and be. I wanted to make sure that I still could feel the wind on my face.
And so I resolved to create a practice that would keep me balancing my work between the concerns of the congregation and the call of the church to me in the world in mission. I blocked out a time budget for my week. Mondays I labeled "Colleagues"--among other things, on Mondays I focused on staff, elders, and volunteer leaders. Tuesday were "Consituents" days. On Tuesday I scheduled counseling and home or office visitations. I called Wednesday my "Crowds" day--the day I got out into the community, sometimes walking the streets meaninglessly on the hill behind the church, other days connecting with a struggling but daring community center serving the inner city poor (regardless, I disciplined myself to find some way to get out and feel the wind). Thursdays and Fridays were for worship and teaching preparation, reading and writing. Quieter days.
Of course, life rarely fits neatly into boxes like these. But this construction of my week did give me focus and it insured that there in the middle was a day to "go out" with God in mission. It saved my ministry. It gave life to the church as I could authentically say to them, "Come along . . . " And it may well have saved my life.
Al Roxburgh writes: "Programs and activities developed in many congregations are focused on the needs and desires of those already attending and tend to be a barrier between the congregation and its community. Engaging with the community has meant finding wasy of inviting others into the programs of the church. This will not lead to engagement with the community. The leader must help the congregation rethink the focus and direction of its attention and programs."
I think a congregation rarely responds to being told what to do. And a leader who pushes and cajoles a congregation into missional engagement will tire and often times get downright cranky. It's hard to push a donkey from behind. I think we lead the delightful little creature by walking in front, talking her past her fears, inviting her to faith. She might come along. Then again she might not. If she doesn't I've still had a ball being myself and seeing the world.